my two cents

Change before it's to late

he was watching tv,
she was disconnected,
they just were

• it's ok to say the wrong thing sometimes
  
• take a breath
• stop and think
• listen, I mean really listen
• don't ask questions anticipating the answer
  
• have the courage to make a decision
• say thank you often
• don't believe everything you hear
• remember that four are pointing back constantly
• if they like it and say it, then leave it be
• there are no easy answers
• sometimes it just is, and that should be good enough
  
• ultimatums never work
• if you say it, mean it
• if you mean it, say it
• the past is just that
• its ok to be wrong
• arsenals are only worthwhile in war
• shut off the idiot box
• it's not a game
• if you want to know, ask but be ready to listen
  

"engage"